@canefan said in Drua vs Hurricanes:
@Higgins have a great time matey
Thanks, it is certainly bringing back memories from over the almost 25 years I have been coming to Fiji. Admittedly it is been 14 years since my last visit (personal things have not always worked out to give me the freedom to come up) but there has been plenty of talk about things that we got up to during those visits and a lot of emotion felt on both sides when talk centered around the passing of at least four people from my "family" during those intervening years. I will be visiting their resting places, probably on Friday, to spend time sitting and talking with them. I think it will be extremely therapeutic for me just spending private time with them, especially as I am now reaching the age where life becomes more of when full time is going to be called rather than something that might happen in thirty or forty years time.
Despite the length of time the "family" connection is probably stronger now than it was when I came more regularly with everyone just so happy to see me and to know that I have not forgotten about them. Have still yet to meet up with my namesake but that will definitely happen on Saturday when Grandpa takes his boy to watch rugby together for the first time ever up at Churchill Park (he does not even know I am in the country so it will be a massive surprise). More particularly poignant will be both of us sitting together listening to my very special Daniel Rae Costello song that I have used to comfort me since his birth knowing that having a standard grandpa grandson relationship in the normal sense is neigh on impossible.
The last time I was here I went to his fifth birthday party and this Saturday will be his 20th birthday so he is not my special little boy anymore but a full grown man. Where have all the intervening years gone, missing out on so much development he has gone through without me?
As you can guess I am very emotional at the moment writing this with lots of tears freely flowing and backed up by some power from above sending down quite an unexpected heavy rain shower indicating that something else is also sending me a message that I am not the only one feeling the same.
Strangely enough writing this has given me great personal comfort. despite inflicting it upon any or our members that might take the time to read it.
Vinaka from a mercifully cooler (or should that really read "not so stinking hot") Nadi.